My Adventures In Life

I am a failure, but I have LDR news!!

I’m a failure at keeping my promises to you guys, but I’m pretty much winning at everything else.

Firstly, Happy Thanksgiving to those who celebrate!

Secondly, I’m so sorry for my lack of activity. Life has just been kicking my ass lately. Not really in a “shit is going downhill” way, but more of a “everything is suddenly coming up and I don’t know what happened to October” kind of way.
I’ve been working my weekends, and struggling (but managing) to keep up with my school work. I have very few days off (today is one of those lucky days), so I haven’t had any extra time to try and get on here, sadly.

So, a mini-update on my life: We’ve just finished week 9 of classes. Next week is our last week and the following week is finals. However, one of my finals is actually due on Thursday next week, so that’s got me messed up a bit.
However, that’s pretty much the only thing going on in my life besides trying to make some money in time to buy Christmas gifts.

EXCEPT: there is one super exciting thing coming up!! One week from tomorrow, at 4:20pm (har har har), I will be at the bus station downtown to meet my giant nerd. In other words: In just a week, a day after our 9 month mark, our LDR will no longer be long distance! I’M FREAKING OUT, GUYS! ONE FREAKING WEEK AND I GET TO SEE THAT DORKY SMILE LIVE AND IN-PERSON! AND EVEN BETTER: I GET TO KEEP IT! HE’S MOVING HERE!

Life is a hard thing to manage…

I have no days off, as I’m once again in Elf mode (aka, working for Santa). My week consists of very little free time now, and I’m still getting over being sick, which is why I’ve been nonexistent on here lately. But I’m going to carve out some time soon to build up my queue as big as I can and try to make a habit of checking in more often.

Also, as a mini-update, here’s what my week looks like now:
Sunday: Homework in the morning/afternoon, Work in the evening.
Monday: All-day classes, homework in the evening.
Tuesday: Practicum in the morning, Class in the afternoon, homework/family time in the evening.
Wednesday: All day classes, homework/family time in the evening.
Thursday: Practicum in the morning, class in the afternoon, homework/D&D in the evening.
Friday: Class in the morning, homework in the afternoon, work in the evening.
Saturday: Homework in the morning/afternoon, work in the evening.

This is basically going to be what my life looks like until the school term is over, give or take a Friday night off for papers/finals.

It just occurred to me…

That I never updated you guys on that last LDR related post. This week has been loooonnnnnggggg. But, rest assured fans, this LDR show is going strong.
It was a talk we needed, and was important, but it wasn’t that kind of talk.
Also, I am going to try my very best to build up a nice fat queue this weekend, so my blog won’t seem so desolate.

Posted 10/20/16 @ 9:22 PM
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Long Distance is hard enough…

Without cryptic boyfriend’s sending your anxiety into high alert. We were making a plan for when we could talk today because, I thought, he simply missed my voice (it’s been at least a week). Then when I finally came to an option in my super busy day today I get “Fine. But we need to talk.” as the last text of the night (we were making these plans last night).
I thought we were just making plans to make stupid, cute noises at each other and whine about how much we miss each other. Now this boy has me thinking the world is ending. Like, the fuck?

Triggers are a popular topic on Tumblr.

Everyone seems to have a trigger to something these days. Except, and I’m sure I’m not the only who’s noticed, most of the people doing the complaining on Tumblr aren’t giving examples of an actual trigger. A trigger is something that brings you back to an emotional/physical trauma that you experienced sometime in your life. A trigger is something that toes that line between “I’m fine, I can get through this” and a complete, crippling breakdown.

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Writing Traumatic Injuries References

alatar-and-pallando:

So, pretty frequently writers screw up when they write about injuries. People are clonked over the head, pass out for hours, and wake up with just a headache… Eragon breaks his wrist and it’s just fine within days… Wounds heal with nary a scar, ever…

I’m aiming to fix that.

Here are over 100 links covering just about every facet of traumatic injuries (physical, psychological, long-term), focusing mainly on burns, concussions, fractures, and lacerations. Now you can beat up your characters properly!

General resources

WebMD

Mayo Clinic first aid

Mayo Clinic diseases

First Aid

PubMed: The source for biomedical literature

Diagrams: Veins (towards heart), arteries (away from heart) bones, nervous system, brain

 

Burns

General overview: Includes degrees

Burn severity: Including how to estimate body area affected

Burn treatment: 1st, 2nd, and 3rd degrees

Smoke inhalation

Smoke inhalation treatment

Chemical burns

Hot tar burns

Sunburns

 

Incisions and Lacerations

Essentials of skin laceration repair (including stitching techniques)

When to stitch (Journal article–Doctors apparently usually go by experience on this)

More about when to stitch (Simple guide for moms)

Basic wound treatment

Incision vs. laceration: Most of the time (including in medical literature) they’re used synonymously, but eh.

Types of lacerations: Page has links to some particularly graphic images–beware!

How to stop bleeding: 1, 2, 3

Puncture wounds: Including a bit about what sort of wounds are most likely to become infected

More about puncture wounds

Wound assessment: A huge amount of information, including what the color of the flesh indicates, different kinds of things that ooze from a wound, and so much more.

Home treatment of gunshot wound, also basics
More about gunshot wounds, including medical procedures

Tourniquet use: Controversy around it, latest research

Location pain chart: Originally intended for tattoo pain, but pretty accurate for cuts

General note: Deeper=more serious. Elevate wounded limb so that gravity draws blood towards heart. Scalp wounds also bleed a lot but tend to be superficial. If it’s dirty, risk infection. If it hits the digestive system and you don’t die immediately, infection’ll probably kill you. Don’t forget the possibility of tetanus! If a wound is positioned such that movement would cause the wound to gape open (i.e. horizontally across the knee) it’s harder to keep it closed and may take longer for it to heal.

 

Broken bones

Types of fractures

Setting a broken bone when no doctor is available

Healing time of common fractures

Broken wrists

Broken ankles/feet

Fractured vertebrae: Neck (1, 2), back

Types of casts

Splints

Fracture complications

Broken noses

Broken digits: Fingers and toes

General notes: If it’s a compound fracture (bone poking through) good luck fixing it on your own. If the bone is in multiple pieces, surgery is necessary to fix it–probably can’t reduce (“set”) it from the outside. Older people heal more slowly. It’s possible for bones to “heal” crooked and cause long-term problems and joint pain. Consider damage to nearby nerves, muscle, and blood vessels.

 

Concussions

General overview

Types of concussions 1, 2

Concussion complications

Mild Brain Injuries: The next step up from most severe type of concussion, Grade 3

Post-concussion syndrome

Second impact syndrome: When a second blow delivered before recovering from the initial concussion has catastrophic effects. Apparently rare.

Recovering from a concussion

Symptoms: Scroll about halfway down the page for the most severe symptoms

Whiplash

General notes: If you pass out, even for a few seconds, it’s serious. If you have multiple concussions over a lifetime, they will be progressively more serious. Symptoms can linger for a long time.




Character reaction:

Shock (general)

Physical shock: 1, 2

Fight-or-flight response: 1, 2

Long-term emotional trauma: 1 (Includes symptoms), 2

First aid for emotional trauma

 

Treatment (drugs)

WebMD painkiller guide

 

Treatment (herbs)

1, 2, 3, 4

 

Miscellany

Snake bites: No, you don’t suck the venom out or apply tourniquettes

Frostbite

Frostbite treatment

Severe frostbite treatment

When frostbite sets in: A handy chart for how long your characters have outside at various temperatures and wind speeds before they get frostbitten

First aid myths: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5 Includes the ones about buttering burns and putting snow on frostbite.

Poisons: Why inducing vomiting is a bad idea

Poisonous plants

Dislocations: Symptoms 1, 2; treatment. General notes: Repeated dislocations of same joint may lead to permanent tissue damage and may cause or be symptomatic of weakened ligaments. Docs recommend against trying to reduce (put back) dislocated joint on your own, though information about how to do it is easily found online.

Muscular strains

Joint sprain

Resuscitation after near-drowning: 1, 2

Current CPR practices: We don’t do mouth-to-mouth anymore.

The DSM IV, for all your mental illness needs.

 

Electrical shock

Human response to electrical shock: Includes handy-dandy voltage chart

Length of contact needed at different voltages to cause injury

Evaluation protocol for electric shock injury

Neurological complications

Electrical and lightning injury

Cardiac complications

Delayed effects and a good general summary

Acquired savant syndrome: Brain injuries (including a lightning strike) triggering development of amazing artistic and other abilities

Please don’t repost! You can find the original document (also created by me) here.

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